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How Creativity Fuels Resilience

Life can test us, but it’s our resilience that propels us to move forward. At the heart of that resilience, motivation can come from many sources, such as community, hobbies, and creativity. 

Creativity isn’t just limited to those who love the arts – it’s for everyone. When people think of creativity, painting and writing can come to mind, but it’s about more than that. It’s also about finding fresh ways to express ourselves, learn to adapt, and reimagine our lives. 

Tapping into creative practices can provide us with new outlets for healing, resilience, and strength to move forward. 

Use Creative Expression as Release

Dealing with overwhelming feelings? Having a creative space to express them can help us release these heavy emotions and give us time to process them, allowing us to understand ourselves better. The next time we feel intense emotion, we can grab a pen or a brush and express ourselves through creative activities. 

Reframe Your Story Through Creativity

Resilience can thrive on perspective, and if we are positive about ourselves and our story, it becomes even more powerful. That’s where creativity comes in. Through creative projects, such as poetry or journaling, we can reshape our narrative, accept our past, and transform our future. It’s all about turning hardship into growth and possibility. 

Find Joy in Small Acts of Creation

It can be freeing to be creative, even in small ways.  Cooking a colorful meal, rearranging our space, or snapping photos of nature can be simple acts with a big impact. Including these “creative rituals” in our day helps us experience little sparks of joy that can fuel our resilience and enjoyment of everyday life, keeping us going.

See Creativity as a Pathway to Growth

With the lens of creativity, we can look at each new day as a blank canvas and think, “How will I paint this into something new?” It’s a reminder that life, just like art, is formed by trying, making mistakes, and trying again. This way of thinking can breathe new hope and self-discovery into our daily lives. 

Final Thoughts

Creative practices are not meant to erase the challenges we face, but to transform them. By engaging in these practices, we can fuel our resilience, find meaning, and discover how adaptable we truly are. That even in tough times, we can create a masterpiece.

 

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Relationship Habits That Strengthen Relationships

A thriving relationship isn’t just by chance – it happens through consistent care, communication, and intentional actions over time. Love is more than just grand gestures. Building small, everyday habits is crucial for strengthening your connection and maintaining that spark with your partner. 

Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or just starting a new chapter, developing these positive habits can make a difference in your daily happiness:

Prioritizing Open Communication

While communication involves talking, it’s also about listening, understanding, and creating a safe space where both partners can express themselves openly. Checking in with your partner and having a daily discussion about what’s on their mind, big or small, can go a long way in strengthening your bond. 

You can even learn more about your partner in the process by having conversations about their day, the future, and everything in between. There’s a reason communication is often known as the foundation for a healthy relationship.

Practicing Appreciation 

Something as simple as “thank you” can make your partner feel valued, recognized, and respected. It can be easy to take the little things for granted, but acknowledging your partner’s efforts and being mindful of their generosity can remind them of how much you care. 

You can try a weekly ritual where you both share one thing you appreciate about each other, such as your partner taking the initiative to do the dishes or cheer you up when you feel down. Sharing your gratitude for one another can highlight the positive and love that’s already present. 

Make Time For Shared Experiences

Busy schedules, work commitments, and daily responsibilities can have you moving in different circles as you partner. But with shared experiences, you can foster more quality time together. It can be an exciting experience, such as taking a pottery class together or going on a weekend getaway. Or it can be as simple as unplugging and having morning coffee together. 

Not every moment has to be extravagant, but what matters most is being intentional about creating memories together. It gives you both something new to share and reminds you how nice it is to have their company. 

Final Thoughts

The takeaway is that relationships thrive most when both partners are committed to growth, connection, and constant discovery. Remember that love is not just a feeling, but also a practice, and the habits you create today will shape the future of your relationship tomorrow.



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The Guiding Principles of a Purpose-Driven Life

We all search for meaning. Some find it in career, others in family, and some through spiritual or creative pursuits. But no matter where purpose is rooted – it can give our lives meaning, direction, and depth. 

The beauty of purpose is that it isn’t one-size-fits-all. There are still guiding principles that can help us find more meaning in our lives and remind us of what really matters. Here are some ways we can discover meaning and purpose in our daily lives.

Stay Connected to Your “Why”

Our “why” is an inner anchor and the deeper reason behind our goals, choices, and commitments. It’s the push we need to get up in the morning and move forward even when challenges arise. For example, working on a project might feel draining but a motivation for “why” is continuing our passions. The “why” can be a reminder of who we are and what we stand for. 

Embrace Growth and Change

Purpose can be more than one thing and can evolve as we do. Allowing ourselves the flexibility to grow, shift directions, and explore new callings is key. Life can present new experiences and with them can come new callings. We can give ourselves permission to pivot, let go of outdated foals, and embrace new directions.

Align Daily Choices with Your Purpose

Big visions are inspiring but purpose can also come from small, daily choices. It can be as simple as how you choose to spend your mornings or the time you take on committing to the things you love, like writing or reading. We don’t need to constantly overhaul our lives to live with purpose but we can over time, do consistent actions each day that reflect our deepest values. 

Final Thoughts

Living with purpose doesn’t mean everything has to be figured out. Rather, it means we choose to navigate our lives with intention and more direction. Every day is a chance to live with greater meaning, to connect with what truly matters, and to leave behind something lasting.

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How Setting Boundaries and Being Kinder to Yourself Can Transform Your Life

Many of us find it easier to show compassion to others than to ourselves, especially when it comes to setting boundaries or standing up for our needs. Learning to practice fierce self-compassion can help you protect, provide for, and motivate yourself when you need it most.

What is Fierce Self-Compassion?

At its core, self-compassion is about treating yourself like a good friend. It involves two key components: tenderness (accepting your imperfections with kindness) and action (making changes to improve your situation). Fierce self-compassion takes this further by empowering you to set boundaries, prioritize self-care, and take action to protect and motivate yourself.

How It Helps

  1. Protecting Yourself: Fierce self-compassion helps you say “no” when needed and channel negative emotions into constructive actions.
  2. Providing for Yourself: It encourages prioritizing self-care, ensuring you don’t burn out.
  3. Motivating Yourself: It builds confidence and helps you keep moving forward, even when times are tough.

How to Practice It

  • Be Mindful: Acknowledge when things are tough instead of avoiding your emotions.
  • Stay Connected: Remind yourself you’re not alone in your struggles.
  • Offer Kindness: Treat yourself with the same compassion you would offer a friend.

The Bottom Line

Fierce self-compassion is about being kind to yourself, setting boundaries, and taking action when needed. By practicing it, you’ll protect your well-being, prevent burnout and stay motivated through challenges.

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Fostering a Sense of “Newness”

By Emi Gilbert, LCSW

“Habituation” is the phenomenon where we become desensitized to the same repeated stimuli. Right now, take a moment to notice the feeling of your clothes on your body. For the majority of us, we were not attuned to this sensation until we deliberately drew our attention to it. We experience the stimulus of our clothes on our skin all day long, so it becomes undetectable. For any stimulus that the body experiences consistently, our brains deem it unnecessary (and overwhelming) to respond. It’s a nifty trick our brains often do to keep us from being constantly overstimulated. However, this is also what makes staying mindfully present so challenging. If we wake up in the same bed, make the same coffee, take the same route to work, sit in the same office, and go home to the same living space, we become more “habituated” to our own lives. The stimuli we are so used to do not warrant our attention. They fade into the background. 

We can break this “habituation” by drawing our attention to our surroundings with mindful intention. Can you pick up the coffee mug you use everyday and find every little thing you have never noticed about it before? Can you feel your chair underneath your legs? Can you even feel your own breath? These are invaluable mindfulness exercises. And yet, in my experience, the more familiar my surroundings, the more challenging it is to remind myself to practice. 

The most natural moments to engage in mindfulness are when I am having a new experience and therefore receiving new stimuli. We may feel this most starkly when we make grand changes – moving to a new house, starting a new job, or traveling to a new city. We are more acutely aware of how everything feels anew. However, substantial changes are not required to evoke this sense of “newness” and vivacity. We have the opportunity to foster this sense in our everyday lives. If I’m walking down a street I’ve never seen, listening to a song I’ve never heard, or rearranging my bedroom in a new way, I am instantly more awakened to the present.

A personal challenge I have set out for myself this summer is to find opportunities to experience something new. It can be anything from a new route on my walk, a new menu item I have never tried, or a new place to read. This is a practice that does not require any particular landmark to begin, so give yourself permission to participate on any random day and tune into your new experience. The more variety of experiences we have, the wider life gets. The more mindfulness we practice, the deeper our present experience gets.

A Midsummer Night’s Check-in

By: Collin King, LPC and Mindy Laroco, LPC

For many Oregonians, SUMMER (in all caps!) is what we’ve been waiting for.

“This is what I invested in during mid-February!” we might feel. “I’ve got to soak it up!”

But in the glory of all that Vitamin D, it can be easy to over-extend socially, or to feel pressure to make the most of every beautiful day. 

Here are some check-in questions you can explore to help you craft a summer that leaves you both fulfilled and refreshed before the leaves start to turn:

What are your top one or two non-negotiable summer activities that genuinely bring you joy?

How do you typically feel after social gatherings during the summer? If you feel more drained, you may be somewhat introverted, or perhaps the setting isn’t your preference. How can you honor your social battery?

Beyond planned activities, what small, everyday moments of summer bring you peace or a sense of presence? How can you intentionally incorporate more of these moments into your week?

What does genuine rest look like for you in the summer?

Imagining yourself at the start of fall, what would make you feel that you’ve had a truly fulfilling and refreshing season?

“Checking in” doesn’t always mean thinking. Here are some creative ways you might learn to check in with yourself, both for these specific questions and more generally:

Rate your day: How many stars would you give your day out of 5? 

At the end of each day, take some time to reflect on the day and give it a rating. Then, think about what that means to you (everyone’s rating system will look different!). For example, if today was a “3 star day”, what does that mean? What makes it higher than a “2 star day”, but not quite a “4 star day”? 

Don’t be afraid to get creative! 

There are various ways to cater this “rating system” to what you like! If not stars, use grades! (or whatever you would like!) Was your day an A+? B? C-? Why’s that? Make this system work for you so that checking in with yourself becomes a habit

Having a “rating system” can be so helpful to continue to check in with yourself. It can be done at the end of the day, at the beginning of the day, or both! This is also a great way to start setting intentions for you day. If today started out at 5 stars, what could you do to keep that momentum? Conversely, if your day started out at 2 stars, what could be done to up that rating? 

Take an inventory of your emotions

Keeping track of how you’re feeling is also an excellent way to check in with yourself. Start at the beginning of your day and write at least 3 feelings words that describe your current state. Then, at the end of the day, do the same thing and compare how your feelings have either changed or not changed from the morning time. (bonus points if you do this mid day as well!) 

This is a great practice to not only keep track of how we are feeling, but to continue to practice being in tune with ourselves and our emotions. If the feelings you logged at the beginning of the day have changed, at what point do you think they changed? Why? If they stayed the same, what do you think helped you maintain that state? The cool thing about these exercises is that after a while. You’ll have a log that you can look back on! You’ll be able to see how you were feeling at certain times, what contributed to those feelings, and understand yourself in different ways. Happy Checking In!

National Grief Awareness Day

By Claire Butcher, CSWA and Christy Maeder, LCSW

August 30th marks National Grief Awareness day, an important reminder for us to check in with our community, loved ones, and ourselves, and recognize the importance of coping with and de-stigmatizing grief. Discussing grief and loss can be difficult, but it is vital to the healing process. This article will review the common myths surrounding grief, identify the “do’s and dont’s” for supporting a loved one, and discuss the importance of cultural and spiritual components of the grieving process. 

Debunking Common Grief Myths

  • “Grief follows the five stages in order.” → There is no particular order to the ‘stages’; we may skip stages, feel multiple of them at the same time, or go through them in a different order. 
  • “Grief only happens after a death.” → There are many different types of loss outside of biological death, including loss of security, safety, culture, etc. It is not something to box in; all forms of loss are valid to grieve. 
  • “Having ‘good days’ and feeling “less grief” means I don’t love the person anymore.” →  This is not true! We can feel the loss of grief, heal, and move forward with life without losing the memory or love of what/who we’ve lost. 
  • “Ignore it to get over it!” → Addressing grief through crying, revisiting emotions/reminders, storytelling, distractions, and connecting with loved ones are all great ways to cope.
  • “Grief ends” → There is no finish line! Like waves in the ocean, there will be stormier days than others, but this does not mean you’re coping ‘wrong’ by having tough days or seasons.
  • “I’m grieving ‘wrong’” → If you’re not hurting yourself or others, there is no wrong way to grieve (storytelling, revisiting places/memorable objects, cooking their favorite foods, connecting with loved ones, crying, using creative outlets, etc).

The Dos & Don’ts for People Who Are Grieving 

  • Don’t sugarcoat someone’s situation, or use platitudes (example: “At least they lived a long life”, or “they’re in a better place”) – this tells the other person how to feel, rather than giving them space to identify their own emotions.
  • Don’t tell people how to grieve – what works for you may not work for others!
  • Do provide space for any emotion
  • Do continue reaching out over time – remember, grief has no finish line!
  • Do remember anniversaries
  • Do hold space for nothing, or no responses (example: reminding the person there is “no need to respond” when checking in)

Cultural Humility and Awareness in the Grieving Process

It is not enough to review the bare bones of processing grief, as it washes over the cultural, ethnic, and religious components that play a role in bereavement. Systemic racism and oppression seep into all facets of life, including how we cope with death. BIPOC communities experience a disproportionate level of stigma and discrimination while in bereavement – from hospital security staff called on grieving black families at higher rates than white families, to having emotional and physical pain dismissed or ignored entirely in therapeutic settings. It is vital for clinicians in any medical and mental health field to stand with their clients, and not speak for them. However giving BIPOC clients space is not enough, clinicians need to go further to meet clients where they are to provide more personalized and meaningful care.

Spiritual / Religious Components of Therapy 

When working with clients who are grieving, therapists need to assess any religious and spiritual beliefs—because these beliefs often shape how people make sense of death, cope with overwhelming feelings, and find comfort when dealing with loss. For many, faith or spiritual practices (prayer, meditation, sitting Shiva, creating altars, etc) are a core part of their identity. They can be a significant source of meaning-making and finding support. For others, grief may spark spiritual questioning, feelings of anger at “God”, disconnection from their faith, or struggle. Making space for these conversations helps us better understand our clients’ worldviews and provide care that truly aligns with their values and needs.

Often, many therapists feel unsure or uncomfortable bringing up religion or spirituality in sessions. There may be fears of overstepping, offending, or not knowing enough about different practices. But when approached with humility and curiosity, we remember that we don’t need to have all the answers—we just need to be willing to listen, learn, and sit with a client’s experience. Exploring a client’s spiritual or religious background is part of practicing cultural competence, especially when grief is experienced differently across cultures and belief systems. By being open to this dimension of a client’s life, we build trust and strengthen our ability to support them in a way that honors the full context of who they are.

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Mental Health Acronyms and Abbreviations

By Christy Maeder, LCSW and Nooshi Ghasedi, MA

The mental health world is so full of abbreviations that it can sometimes feel like learning a new language. Whether you’re navigating therapy, reading about treatment options, or filling out forms, acronyms like EMDR, PTSD, and LPC pop up everywhere. We know this can be confusing, so we created a quick reference to help break it all down. This guide is here to make the language of mental health more understandable and less intimidating—because everyone deserves to feel informed and empowered when it comes to their care.

  1. Diagnostic & Clinical Terms
  • DSM – Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders
  • ICD – International Classification of Diseases
  • MDD – Major Depressive Disorder
  • GAD – Generalized Anxiety Disorder
  • PTSD – Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
  • OCD – Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder
  • ADHD – Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder
  • BPD – Borderline Personality Disorder
  • ASD – Autism Spectrum Disorder
  • PDD – Persistent Depressive Disorder
  • SUD – Substance Use Disorder
  • ED – Eating Disorder
  • BP – Bipolar Disorder
  1. Therapeutic Approaches
  • CBT – Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
  • DBT – Dialectical Behavior Therapy
  • ACT – Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
  • EMDR – Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
  • IFS – Internal Family Systems
  • TF-CBT – Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
  • MBCT – Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy
  • MI – Motivational Interviewing
  • PE – Prolonged Exposure (for PTSD)
  1. Assessment Tools
  • PHQ-9 – Patient Health Questionnaire-9
  • GAD-7 – Generalized Anxiety Disorder 7-item scale
  • ACES – Adverse Childhood Experiences Scale
  • MMPI – Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory
  • BAI – Beck Anxiety Inventory
  • BDI-II – Beck Depression Inventory II
  • SCID – Structured Clinical Interview for DSM
  • PCL-5 – Posttraumatic Stress Disorder Measurement for DSM-5
  1. Children’s Mental Health Acronyms
  • IEP – Individualized Education Program
  • 504 Plan – Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act (accommodations in school)
  • FBA – Functional Behavioral Assessment
  • BIP – Behavior Intervention Plan
  • IDEA – Individuals with Disabilities Education Act
  • SEL – Social and Emotional Learning
  • LRE – Least Restrictive Environment
  • RTI – Response to Intervention
  • PBIS – Positive Behavioral Interventions and Supports
  • FTF – Face-to-Face (sessions, often used for children)
  • PCIT – Parent-Child Interaction Therapy
  • PMT – Parent Management Training
  • DYAD – Dyadic therapy (child and caregiver)
  • PANS/PANDAS – Pediatric Acute-onset Neuropsychiatric Syndrome / Pediatric Autoimmune Neuropsychiatric Disorders Associated with Streptococcal Infections
  • DD – Developmental Delay
  • SPD – Sensory Processing Disorder
  1. Licensure & Professional Terms
  • LCSW – Licensed Clinical Social Worker
  • LMFT – Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
  • LPC/LPCC – Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor
  • PsyD – Doctor of Psychology
  • MSW – Master of Social Work
  1. Systems & Legal Terms
  • EHR – Electronic Health Record
  • HIPAA – Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act
  • CPS – Child Protective Services
  • DCFS – Department of Children and Family Services
  • GAL – Guardian ad Litem
  • IEP – Individualized Education Program
  • FERPA – Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act
  1. Crisis & Suicide Prevention
  • QPR – Question, Persuade, Refer
  • C-SSRS – Columbia-Suicide Severity Rating Scale
  • NSSI – Non-Suicidal Self-Injury 
  1. LGBTQIA+ and Cultural Terms
  • LGBTQIA+ – Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer or Questioning, Intersex, Asexual (and others)
  • BIPOC – Black, Indigenous, and People of Color
  • DEI – Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion

SOGIE – Sexual Orientation, Gender Identity, and Expression

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Strategies for Making Friends as an Adult

Making friends as an adult can feel like navigating a maze without a map. We don’t have the built-in opportunities we had in school or college, and life’s responsibilities can make it harder to carve out the time and energy for new relationships. Still, meaningful friendships are possible at any stage of life; it just takes a bit of intention and openness.

Here are a few strategies to help you form genuine, lasting connections:

Get Clear on Your Intentions

Before you put yourself out there, ask yourself why you want to make new friends. Are you looking for people to share hobbies with? Support through life transitions? Deep, soul-level connections? Clarity about your intentions will guide your approach and help you find friendships that truly fulfill you.

Identify the Qualities You’re Seeking

Think about what makes a friendship meaningful to you. Is it shared values, similar life experiences, or a compatible sense of humor? By knowing what matters most, you’ll be more intentional in choosing connections that have the potential to grow into something long-lasting.

Be Open to Different Possibilities

Sometimes the most rewarding friendships come from unexpected places. Maybe your new best friend is 15 years older than you, works in a totally different field, or lives in another city. Don’t limit yourself to a certain “type” of friend—be open to the idea that meaningful connections can come in all shapes, sizes, and life stages.

Keep an Eye Out for Opportunities to Connect

Friendship can bloom anywhere at work, during a class, in your neighborhood, or even while waiting in line at the coffee shop. Join community events, volunteer, or sign up for group activities that genuinely interest you. The more you show up in spaces where you feel comfortable and engaged, the easier it will be to connect naturally with others.


Making friends as an adult isn’t about collecting contacts, it’s about cultivating relationships that bring joy, trust, and mutual support. By staying intentional and open, you’ll create space for the kind of connections that make life richer and more fulfilling.

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Practical Ways to Build Confidence at Work

Confidence at work doesn’t always come naturally but it can be built. Whether you’re new to your role, stepping into leadership, or just trying to quiet that inner critic, here are five simple and practical ways to start building confidence in the workplace.

Be Prepared

Confidence starts with preparation. When you walk into meetings or presentations well-prepared, you’ll feel more grounded and in control. Take time to understand your tasks, do your research, and anticipate questions. The more you know your material, the less room there is for self-doubt.

Speak Up (Even if You’re Nervous)

Raising your hand in meetings or contributing ideas can feel scary but the more you do it, the easier it gets. Confidence isn’t the absence of nervousness; it’s the willingness to speak despite it.

Start small: ask a question, share a thought, or offer support. Every time you speak up, you’re training your brain to see your voice as valuable and it is.

Keep a Record of Your Achievements

It’s easy to forget your wins when you’re focused on what’s next. Keeping a log of your accomplishments big and small can remind you of your growth and impact.

Whether it’s an email folder of positive feedback, a journal, or a running list in your Notes app, having a personal “brag file” gives you evidence of your worth when imposter syndrome tries to sneak in.

Ask for Feedback From People You Trust

Feedback is one of the fastest ways to grow, but it’s also a powerful confidence-builder. When you ask trusted colleagues or mentors for constructive feedback, you not only show initiative, but you also gain valuable insight into what you’re doing well (and where you can improve).

Choose people who will be honest and kind. Their input can help you see strengths you might be overlooking.

Surround Yourself With Encouraging People

Confidence is contagious. Surround yourself with colleagues, mentors, and friends who lift you up and believe in your potential. Limit time with those who constantly criticize or create self-doubt.

Your environment shapes your mindset and makes sure it supports the version of you that you’re becoming.

Final Thoughts

Building confidence at work is a process, not a personality trait you’re either born with or without. It grows every time you take a small step forward, try something new, or simply remind yourself that you’re capable.

Start with one of these strategies and build from there. Your confident self is already in the making.



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