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Children’s Mental Health: A Day of Awareness, Acceptance, and Action

By: Emily Walden, PhD

Children’s mental health awareness weeks were initiated by parents, healthcare providers, and other supporters, beginning in the 1990s, to increase understanding of the specific mental health needs of youth. In 2004, the National Federation of Families established Children’s Mental Health Awareness Week, and about a year later, the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) declared National Children’s Mental Health Awareness Day. Though “Awareness” is still used by many, some have begun calling this an “Acceptance Day,” to decrease stigma for mental illness, or an “Action Day,” as a call for more direct and efficient steps to immediately reduce suffering and increase positive support for children. In 2026, this day falls on Thursday, May 7th.

Toolkits to support parents/caregivers, therapists, schools, and other individuals and agencies who provide services to children are available from multiple national organizations, including SAMHSA and the National Child Traumatic Stress Network (NCTSN). Local resources for this day are provided by the Oregon Family Support Network (OFSN), which is hosting events for families and a resource fair in Salem on May 9th and Eugene on May 16th; the Tillamook County Suicide Prevention Coalition, which is helping children and teens make self-care kits on May 7th; and Albertina Kerr, which is hosting a talk about neurodiversity and mental health needs for children and teens in Portland on May 26th.

Awareness includes understanding:

  1. The prevalence of mental health needs in youth. For example, a recent study by the Oregon Health Authority (OHA) of 6th-, 8th-, and 11th-graders found that, in the past year, 12% reported self-harming, 12% reported considering suicide, and 3.3% reported having attempted suicide. Oregon has higher rates of anxiety and depression in children at 18% of the population compared to the national average of 13%.
  1. That children from marginalized groups experience additional difficulties in accessing care and factors that contribute to mental health concerns, including racial bias/discrimination and discrimination for LGBTQ+ youth.

Acceptance could mean:

  1. Supporting universal care for children and teens and easily accessible resources. Parents/caregivers and schools can access and use resources for all children, including from the The Kids Mental Health Foundation. Mental health can be part of the daily discussion.
  1. Reducing stigma around mental health. Children and teens may be concerned how they will be perceived or how “different” they might seem to peers, and they often worry mental health professionals will misunderstand them, which depending on certain intersectional identities, can be even more detrimental for some children and teens.

Action may look like:

  1. Reducing or mitigating factors that contribute to mental health struggles, such as rates of abuse/neglect (e.g., 8,242 founded child maltreatment reports alone in Oregon in 2024), risks from low socio-economic status (e.g., neurobiological and cardiovascular changes in childhood), and stressful circumstances for children who have immigrated or are refugees in the U.S., among others.
  1. Increasing care options across all levels of support. Despite the many IOP, psychiatric hospitalization options, and therapeutic programs outlined for youth in OHSU’s most recent service report for youth, there remains a significant deficit.

Resiliency occurs despite the vulnerability of children’s mental health, and the role of advocacy in this field must occur constantly, but a day dedicated to children’s mental health is a necessary step to support awareness, acceptance, and action.



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National School Library Day!

By: Molly Mazur

Libraries are a beacon of hope for not just those that love to read, but all local community members. In times of distress, escaping to the world of reading is highly beneficial for the mind. In fact, reading is proven to increase your physical and mental health, and teaches social-emotional skills like empathy. Best of all…libraries make it free and easy to explore all of their amazing local perks. 

Access to books is just the tip of the iceberg (or first page of the novel!), when it comes to local Oregon libraries. They’re an incredible resource for classes, access to materials and goods, community events, and other spaces you would not expect to be library-adjacent with the swipe of a library card. 

At their heart, libraries are more than just rooms full of books; they’re the ultimate “hangout with a purpose” for any neighborhood. They’re one of the last places on earth where you can just exist without having to spend a dime. Whether it’s a spot for a kid to discover a new hobby, a place for neighbors to meet up, or a hub where local history and different cultures are kept alive, libraries act like the glue that holds a community together. They remind us that we’re all part of something bigger and that having a shared space to learn and chill is what actually makes a city feel like a home.This in turn has substantial mental health benefits. When libraries promote social and communal engagement without barriers, it has a substantial effect on mental wellness by minimizing social isolation and presenting opportunities of meaning, learning, and creativity. 

Check out these amazing things happening at libraries near you!

PDX: Multnomah County Libraries 

Live in an old house?: At your local library, you can track down architectural and social history of your home. In addition, you’ll find archives of local newspapers and other resources dating back to the 1800’s!

Free tickets: The Multnomah County Libraries offer My Discovery Passes that give you access to free tickets to tons of museums, cultural attractions, and live performances. Use your library card to explore the best parts of the Portland area, all for free!

For Children and Teens: At the Rockwood location, children and teens have access to the Makerspace, that’s just for them. In this learning environment, they can access laptops with creative software, sewing machines, 3D printers, and craft supplies.

Cultural Events: Your local libraries have tons of free cultural events. From Mexican bingo to Somali music and poetry for women, it’s a wonderful way to get to know your community and all its amazing culture it has to offer. Check out their April events calendar here.

EUG: Eugene Public Library

Crochet, Philosophy, Concerts and More!: The Eugene public library hosts a wide range of community events including classes, philosophy circles, concerts, and how-to nights, like voter registration. Check out their April events calendar here

CultureGrams: Love to learn about different countries and their culture and customs? Free with your library card is an explorative platform just for this. 

Lifelong Learners: Through Brainfuse, the Eugene library offers live online tutoring and homework help, help writing resumes and cover letters, and test prep for the GED, high school equivalency, and U.S. citizenship tests.

References 

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11303134/

https://www.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/surgeon-general-social-connection-advisory.pdf

https://www.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/surgeon-general-social-connection-advisory.pdf



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10% Better: Small, Evidence-Based Ways to Support Your Mental Health

“Great things are not done by impulse, but by a series of small things brought together.” — Vincent van Gogh

It’s easy to fall into all-or-nothing thinking when it comes to mental health: 

I need to fix everything. I should feel better by now. If I can’t do it perfectly, why try at all? 

This mindset can backfire. Research in psychology consistently shows that sustainable change tends to come from small, repeatable actions—not dramatic overhauls. Aiming to feel “10% better” can be more realistic, more compassionate, and ultimately more effective than chasing a total transformation.

Below are practical, evidence-informed strategies that can help nudge your mental health in a positive direction. None are magic fixes—but each can make a meaningful difference.

  • Move your body—gently counts
    You don’t need an intense workout. Walking, stretching, or light activity has been linked to reductions in symptoms of depression and anxiety. Consistency matters more than intensity.
  • Get 10–20 minutes of daylight early in the day
    Exposure to natural light, especially in the morning, helps regulate circadian rhythms and can improve mood and sleep quality. Even on cloudy, PNW days, outdoor light is significantly brighter than indoor lighting.
  • Name what you’re feeling
    Putting emotions into words (“I feel overwhelmed” vs. “I feel bad”) activates language areas of the brain involved in regulation. This simple practice—sometimes called “affect labeling”—can reduce emotional intensity.
  • Limit information overload
    Constant exposure to news and social media can increase stress and anxiety. So ask yourself: does my media consumption make me more empowered, or less? It’s okay to not track every headline or to take a news vacation.
  • Reach out—even briefly
    Short, low-pressure social interactions (a text, a quick call, a shared moment) can meaningfully boost mood. Social connection, even brief, is one of the most robust protective factors in mental health research.
  • Use your senses to ground yourself
    Simple grounding exercises—like noticing five things you can see or focusing on sounds in the room—can reduce acute stress and bring attention back to the present moment.
  • Track small wins
    Our brains are biased toward noticing what’s wrong. Instead, think about one or two things that went okay today. Explore a “done” list, rather than a “to-do list,” some “accomplished” journaling, rather than “goal” journaling. Odds are, you’ve done more this week than you realize.

A final note
Improvement doesn’t have to be dramatic to matter. If something helps you feel even 10% better—and it’s safe, sustainable, and accessible—that’s meaningful progress. Over time, small changes can accumulate into something much larger.

If you’re struggling and these strategies feel like far from enough, reaching out for professional support is an important next step. You don’t have to figure it out alone.

Bibliography / Further reading

Creswell, J. D. (2017). Mindfulness interventions. Annual Review of Psychology.

Dimidjian, S., Hollon, S. D., Dobson, K. S., et al. (2006). Randomized trial of behavioral activation, cognitive therapy, and antidepressant medication in the acute treatment of adults with major depression. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology.

Emmons, R. A., & McCullough, M. E. (2003). Counting blessings versus burdens: An experimental investigation of gratitude and subjective well-being. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.

Gao, J., Zheng, P., Jia, Y., et al. (2020). Mental health problems and social media exposure during COVID-19 outbreak. PLOS ONE.

Haslam, C., Jetten, J., Cruwys, T., et al. (2018). The new psychology of health: Unlocking the social cure. Routledge.

Holman, E. A., Garfin, D. R., & Silver, R. C. (2014). Media’s role in broadcasting acute stress following collective trauma. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.

Holt-Lunstad, J., Smith, T. B., & Layton, J. B. (2010). Social relationships and mortality risk: A meta-analytic review. PLOS Medicine.

Jacobson, N. S., Martell, C. R., & Dimidjian, S. (2001). Behavioral activation treatment for depression. Clinical Psychology: Science and Practice.

LeGates, T. A., Fernandez, D. C., & Hattar, S. (2014). Light as a central modulator of circadian rhythms, sleep, and affect. Nature Reviews Neuroscience.

Lieberman, M. D., Eisenberger, N. I., Crockett, M. J., et al. (2007). Putting feelings into words: Affect labeling disrupts amygdala activity. Psychological Science.

Limburg, K., Watson, H. J., Hagger, M. S., et al. (2017). The relationship between perfectionism and psychopathology: A meta-analysis. Journal of Clinical Psychology.

Polusny, M. A., Erbes, C. R., Thuras, P., et al. (2015). Mindfulness-based stress reduction for PTSD among veterans. JAMA.

Schuch, F. B., Vancampfort, D., Richards, J., et al. (2016). Physical activity and incident depression: A meta-analysis. American Journal of Psychiatry.

Seligman, M. E. P., Steen, T. A., Park, N., et al. (2005). Positive psychology progress: Empirical validation of interventions. American Psychologist.

Stubbs, B., Vancampfort, D., Rosenbaum, S., et al. (2017). An examination of the anxiolytic effects of exercise. Psychiatry Research.

Wirz-Justice, A. (2009). From the basic neuroscience of circadian clock function to light therapy for depression. Dialogues in Clinical Neuroscience.

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National Exercise & ‘Play Outside’ Days

By: Claire Butcher

In the spring there are three closely related national days revolving around the benefits of physical activity and nature: National Exercise Day, National Play Outside Day, and National Walking Day. It’s likely we all think of ways we could be incorporating more physical activity and time outside when we hear about these highlighted dates. Between hectic work schedules, daunting updates in the news, and nearly unlimited access to screens and quick dopamine-hits, it can be difficult to reconnect with our bodies and the outdoors. This article will shed light on the benefits of movement and nature, and provide ways we can reduce the barriers to integrating these essential activities into our schedule. 

Benefits of Nature

Time outside can give us one of the most immediate benefits to mental health – drastically reducing stress, lowering our cortisol levels, and improving our mood. Sunlight specifically plays a large role in boosting our production of serotonin and reducing symptoms of depression. Research shows that routine exposure to nature also helps us reduce rumination, or cycles of negative thinking patterns. Some doctors and therapists even prescribe time in nature to their patients, encouraging them to reconnect with the outdoors to gain the numerous health benefits.

Connecting with nature doesn’t always have to look like a long camping trip or strenuous hike; immediate benefits can be achieved through small forms of engagement – gardening, going for a short walk in a park, standing or sitting outside for fresh air, even having a window with a view of nature has been linked to these cognitive benefits. To all the college students – even looking at plants can help improve our focus and memory when studying.

Benefits of Walking and Exercise

Numerous studies have shed light on the incredible benefits of exercise for mental health – from reducing symptoms of anxiety and depression and boosting our ‘feel-good’ hormones and endorphins, to improving our overall brain function. Research even shows even
one-time workouts improve cognitive function, sharpening our attention, executive function, memory, and information processing. In this study, age, cognitive status of participants, type of or intensity of exercise, and duration of workout had no significant impact on the benefits participants received. 

Some clinicians recommend pairing mindfulness training with movement – suggesting two to five minute walks in-silence to boost our awareness, brain growth, and mood. Again, remember that small goals can make a big difference, one major study in 2021 discovered that any level of physical activity improved depression risk. Daily movement can even improve symptoms of more severe mental health struggles like PTSD, schizophrenia, and Alzheimer’s. For depression, research has proven aerobic exercises (such as jogging, swimming, cycling, walking, dancing, gardening) significantly reduce symptoms.

Make it Accessible

Just because we know the benefits of movement and spending time in nature, doesn’t mean it’s easy to integrate. Here are some tips to get started and keep the momentum going:

  • Habit stacking – pairing one existing habit with a new one you’re trying to incorporate (doing chair yoga or a short workout while watching a TV show, going for a walk while calling a friend or listening to music)
  • Momentum building – identifying tasks to complete while working towards the end-goal (getting up, drinking water, grabbing a snack, going for a walk, then coming home to clean your room now that your mind and body are active)
    • Or, identifying things that need to happen such as waking up and coming home from class or work, and doing an activity you want to do afterwards (i.e.: getting home from work → then going for a walk; feeding yourself or a pet → then stretching or doing a short workout)
  • Body doubling / Accountability – having a friend to engage in these things with, or someone to report back to, can help us stick to our goals
  • Lower the bar – if it’s too intimidating to start, lower the expectation (instead of “go on a 30 minute walk each day”, change that to “walk for five minutes a day” so you can integrate the habit so it’s achievable even on your hardest days
  • ‘Kill until’ – if we wait for the perfect time to start something new, we will wait forever! Dishes, laundry, and other non-urgent maintenance often can wait while we take time to practice other forms of self-care
  • Get rid of unhelpful rules – if it’s too difficult to do the ‘right’ steps, make your own! (workout at home in your current clothes or pajamas if it’s too much to change into gym clothes and drive to a gym or go outside)

While managing mental health is a multi-layered and complex process, starting with solid foundations of accessible exercise and time outdoors are highly effective ways to improve our wellbeing. Reconnecting with our bodies, minds, and green spaces – even briefly – is vital in this stressful time to ensure we maintain grounded and connected with our spaces and communities around us.

References: 

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Is Listening to an Audiobook as Good as Reading?

For a growing number of Americans, the answer to “What are you reading?” is actually something they’re listening to.

Audiobooks have exploded in popularity in recent years, fueled by busy schedules, long commutes, and the convenience of consuming stories while multitasking. 

But the rise of audiobooks has sparked a surprisingly heated debate: Does listening to a book “count” as reading?

Science offers a nuanced answer. In many ways, listening and reading are remarkably similar. But when it comes to memory, comprehension, and cognitive development, there are also meaningful differences.

Reading Helps Build Vocabulary and Memory

Reading also provides visual and spatial cues that strengthen learning.

When you encounter an unfamiliar word in print, you see:

  • How it’s spelled
  • Where it appears on the page
  • The surrounding sentence structure

Those details help the brain build stronger associations and improve vocabulary acquisition.

With audiobooks, words arrive and disappear quickly. There’s less opportunity to pause and decode meaning through context clues.

Reading also creates what psychologists sometimes call “spatial memory.” Many readers can remember that an important idea appeared near the top of a page or in a specific chapter. These visual landmarks can improve recall and comprehension.

Listening doesn’t offer the same kind of cognitive map.

Multitasking Changes Everything

Another key factor is attention.

Most audiobook listening happens while people are:

  • Driving
  • Exercising
  • Cleaning
  • Cooking
  • Commuting

While this convenience is one of audiobooks’ greatest strengths, divided attention comes at a cost.

Research consistently shows that multitasking reduces retention and comprehension. If your attention is split between traffic and a plot twist, your brain simply absorbs less information.

That doesn’t make audiobooks ineffective. It just means they may not be ideal for material you truly need to study or remember in detail.

When Audiobooks Shine

Audiobooks offer enormous benefits, especially for people who struggle to find time to sit down with a physical book.

They can be especially useful for:

  • Leisure reading
  • Long commutes
  • Exercise sessions
  • Revisiting familiar books
  • Increasing overall exposure to books and ideas
  • People with visual impairments or reading difficulties

For many people, listening to a book is infinitely better than not engaging with books at all.

When Traditional Reading Is Better

Reading may be the better option when:

  • You need to retain detailed information
  • The material is academically challenging
  • The text is dense or complex
  • You want to annotate or highlight ideas
  • You’re learning new vocabulary or technical concepts

Reading encourages slower, more deliberate engagement with the material, something that often improves comprehension and long-term memory.

The Verdict

So, is listening to an audiobook as good as reading?

The answer depends on your goal.

If your goal is entertainment, storytelling, or absorbing general ideas, audiobooks are remarkably effective. Neuroscience suggests the brain processes spoken and written narratives in highly similar ways.

But if your goal is deep comprehension, critical analysis, or long-term retention, traditional reading still appears to have an edge.

Ultimately, the best format may simply be the one that helps you engage with more books consistently. Whether you read with your eyes or your ears, spending time with stories and ideas is almost always better than not engaging at all.

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Be More Bored

Technology has made boredom almost impossible.

The second we have a free moment, we reach for our phones. We scroll, watch, listen, and consume constantly. AI makes this even easier by giving us instant answers, ideas, and entertainment on demand.

But boredom actually serves a purpose.

When the brain has nothing to focus on, it starts wandering. That’s often where creativity, reflection, and new ideas come from. Research shows these quiet moments activate the brain’s “default mode network,” the part of the brain linked to imagination, memory, and deeper thinking.

It’s why some of your best ideas show up in the shower, during a walk, or while staring out a window.

Without boredom, kids never learn how to create meaning on their own. They never have to invent games, explore curiosity, or sit with their imagination. Adults lose something too: the ability to pause and examine their lives instead of constantly reacting to the next distraction.

The problem is that silence now feels uncomfortable. Waiting in line without checking your phone feels strange. Walking without headphones feels inefficient. We’ve trained ourselves to avoid empty space at all costs.

But empty space is often where clarity begins.

So if you want to think more clearly, create more, or feel more present, try being bored on purpose. Go for a walk without music. Sit in silence for a few minutes. Leave part of your day unscheduled.

Not every moment needs input.

Sometimes your best thoughts arrive when nothing is happening.

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The Many Benefits of Spending Time Outside

Getting outside can feel like an afterthought. But it really shouldn’t be. Spending time in nature is one of the simplest ways to reset, clear your head, and feel a bit more like yourself again. It doesn’t have to be anything big either. Even a short walk or a few quiet minutes outdoors can make a difference.

Nature Can Inspire Awe

There’s a certain feeling you get when you’re surrounded by nature that’s hard to explain but easy to recognize. It might be watching the sky change colors at sunset or standing among tall trees and realizing how small you are in the best possible way. These moments can shift your perspective. They remind you that there’s more to life than whatever is stressing you out, and that can be incredibly grounding.

The Green Experience

Being around greenery just feels good. There’s something calming about trees, plants, and open spaces that you don’t quite get anywhere else. It’s not just in your head either. Natural environments have been shown to help reduce stress and improve mood. When you’re outside, your senses get a break from all the noise and distractions. You start to notice little things like the sound of leaves or the feel of fresh air, and it helps you slow down.

Nature Restores Us

Daily life can be exhausting, especially when your attention is constantly being pulled in different directions. Nature gives your mind a chance to rest. When you step outside, you’re not dealing with notifications or endless to do lists in the same way. Your brain can finally breathe a little. Even a short amount of time outdoors can help you feel more focused, more relaxed, and better able to handle whatever comes next.

Spending time outside doesn’t have to be complicated. You don’t need to plan a big trip or carve out hours of your day. Just start small and make it part of your routine. Step outside with your morning coffee, go for a quick walk, or sit somewhere quiet for a few minutes. It adds up, and over time, you’ll start to notice the difference.

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How to Make Friends as an Adult

Making friends as an adult can feel surprisingly complicated. Unlike school or early life, where proximity and shared routines do most of the work, adult friendships often require intention, effort, and a bit of courage. If you’ve ever thought, “Why is this so hard now?” you’re not alone.

The good news is that it’s absolutely doable. And often, it comes down to a few mindset shifts and simple habits.

Here are three that make a real difference.

Be Less Judgmental

It’s easy to mentally filter people out within seconds. Too quiet, too loud, too different, not “my type.” But this instinct, while natural, can quietly block potential friendships before they even have a chance to form.

As adults, we tend to look for fully formed compatibility right away. But friendships don’t usually start that way. They grow into it.

Try this instead:

  • Give people a second or third interaction before deciding
  • Stay curious about differences instead of dismissing them
  • Let conversations unfold without rushing to evaluate them

You don’t need to become best friends with everyone. But lowering the bar for initial openness often leads to unexpected, meaningful connections.

Get Creative About Where You Meet People

If your current routine isn’t introducing you to new people, it’s probably not going to magically start doing so.

Adult friendships often come from shared environments, but you have to put yourself in those environments first.

Some ideas:

  • Join a class, whether it is fitness, art, language, or anything you’re curious about
  • Attend local events, workshops, or meetups
  • Volunteer for a cause you care about
  • Work from a café or shared space occasionally
  • Say yes to invitations you’d normally skip

The key isn’t just going out more. It’s placing yourself in spaces where interaction is natural and repeat encounters are likely. Familiarity builds comfort, and comfort builds connection.

Initiate More Often

This is the part most people avoid and the one that matters most.

Many adults are open to friendship but hesitant to make the first move. That means if you don’t initiate, there’s a good chance nothing happens.

Initiating doesn’t have to be a big, bold gesture. It can be simple:

  • “Hey, want to grab coffee sometime?”
  • “I’m going to check out this event, want to come?”
  • “I enjoyed chatting the other day. We should do it again.”

Yes, there’s a risk of rejection or awkwardness. But more often than not, people appreciate someone else taking that step.

If you’re always waiting for others to reach out, you’re leaving your social life up to chance. Taking initiative gives you some control over it.

Final Thoughts

Making friends as an adult isn’t about becoming more outgoing overnight or changing who you are. It’s about small shifts:

  • Being a little more open
  • Showing up in the right places
  • Taking a few social risks

It might feel uncomfortable at first, but that discomfort is usually a sign that something new and worthwhile is starting.

And chances are, there are plenty of people around you hoping someone like you makes the first move.

 

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How to Clarify Your Values and Build a Simple 90-Day Plan

Before setting ambitious goals for the year ahead, it’s worth pausing to get clear on what actually matters to you. Without that clarity, even the most well-crafted plans can lead to burnout, distraction, or progress that doesn’t feel meaningful. A focused 90-day plan rooted in your values can help you move forward with purpose and direction.

Start with Your Current Reality

Clarity doesn’t come from forcing goals, it comes from honest reflection. Take time to assess where you are right now across different areas of your life: work, health, relationships, and personal growth. What’s working well? What feels off? What’s draining your energy?

This step isn’t about judgment, it’s about awareness. When you understand your current reality, your goals become more grounded and achievable.

Define Your Season

Not every phase of life is meant for rapid growth. Sometimes you’re building, sometimes maintaining, sometimes navigating change, and sometimes recovering.

Ask yourself: What season am I in right now?

  • Growth: You have energy and capacity to push forward.
  • Stability: You’re maintaining and strengthening what you’ve built.
  • Transition: You’re navigating change or uncertainty.
  • Recovery: You need rest, healing, or recalibration.

Defining your season helps you set realistic expectations and prevents you from taking on more than you can sustain.

Choose 3–5 Focused Priorities

Once you’re clear on your values and your season, narrow your focus. Instead of trying to improve everything at once, choose three to five priorities for the next 90 days.

These should reflect what truly matters, not what feels urgent or externally pressured.

For each priority, keep it simple:

  • What outcome do you want?
  • What does progress look like?
  • What’s one small step you can take this week?

This keeps your energy directed toward meaningful progress instead of scattered effort.

Build Your 90-Day Plan

A 90-day timeframe is long enough to see real progress, but short enough to stay focused. Break your priorities into small, manageable actions you can take weekly.

Avoid overcomplicating the plan. Clarity and consistency matter more than perfection.

Check In Regularly

A plan is only useful if you stay connected to it. Set aside time each week or month to review your progress:

  • What’s working?
  • What feels misaligned?
  • What needs to change?

These check-ins aren’t about starting over, they’re about adjusting your direction while staying committed to your priorities.

Move Forward with Intention

When your goals are aligned with your values and your current season, progress feels more natural and sustainable. Instead of chasing everything, you focus on what truly matters and that’s where meaningful change happens.

A simple, intentional 90-day plan can be the difference between feeling overwhelmed and moving forward with clarity.

 

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What to Do When You’re Feeling Stuck

We all hit moments in life where everything feels paused like we’re unsure of the next step, lacking motivation, or simply going through the motions. Feeling stuck isn’t a failure; it’s a signal. It’s your mind and body asking for a shift. Here are a few ways to gently move yourself forward again.

  1. Talk to Your Future Self
    Imagine the version of you a year from now the one who made it through this phase. What choices did they make? What did they stop overthinking? Sometimes, stepping outside your current perspective helps you see things more clearly. Your future self isn’t as afraid as you are right now; they’ve already figured it out. Let them guide you.
  2. Consider What’s Outside Your Comfort Zone
    Feeling stuck often means you’ve outgrown your current routine. Growth rarely happens in familiar spaces. Ask yourself: what am I avoiding because it feels uncomfortable? Whether it’s starting something new, having a difficult conversation, or taking a small risk, discomfort can be a doorway to momentum.
  3. Don’t Waste Time Waiting for Perfect Conditions
    There’s a common trap in waiting until you feel “ready.” The truth is, clarity comes from action, not the other way around. You don’t need a perfect plan—you just need a starting point. Even the smallest step forward can break the cycle of stagnation and create a sense of progress.
  4. Make a Self-Loving Choice
    When you’re stuck, it’s easy to be hard on yourself. Instead, ask: what would be the most self-loving thing I could do right now? Maybe it’s resting without guilt, setting a boundary, or doing something that genuinely makes you feel good. Moving forward doesn’t always mean pushing harder, it can also mean treating yourself with more care.

Feeling stuck is temporary, even if it doesn’t feel that way. It’s part of being human. Be patient with yourself, stay curious, and remember: even small shifts can lead to meaningful change.

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