Trying to fight or ignore emotions can give them even more power.
While facing and accepting them head-on can help us better understand and embrace them.Â
Welcome Your EmotionsÂ
Have you ever tried naming your emotions?Â
Certain emotions can often feel a little confusing, and it can be hard to differentiate if they are positive, negative or somewhere in between.
Take note of what your body is trying to tell you.
You can do this by assessing the situation you are in and simply stating exactly what’s on your mind.
Sometimes saying exactly what’s going on in your head out loud can help make those thoughts easier to understand.Â
Say Thank You
When friends come to visit us, we thank them.
Why can’t we do the same thing with our emotions?
Every emotion has something to teach us – and we can thank them for that.Â
Here’s an example. Let’s say you’re starting to get worried about a deadline at work.
You can thank your worry for keeping you on track and on top of your deadline.
After all, all feelings visit us for a reason!Â
Listen And Learn
Emotions do so much for us.Â
They can help us dig deep, stay safe, set goals and step outside our comfort zone. Taking the time to really listen to them can teach us valuable lessons.Â
Hello and welcome! This is a sweet version of Jen Champions yoga for heart health. Please note, for today’s practice you will need a chair. We hope you enjoy.
February is the season of romance, especially with Valentine’s Day on the 14th.Â
It’s a sweet celebration of love that gives us a little break from the darker days during the winter months.
This holiday offers us an opportunity to show our loved ones how much we appreciate them. We can foster our connections and strengthen our relationships by expressing this love to our family, friends, and community.Â
Before exploring this idea of celebrating love, let us revisit the folklore around Valentine’s Day.Â
Legend has it that St. Valentine was a Roman Christian priest who performed marriages of young lovers to keep the men from being sent off to war.Â
When political authorities discovered that St. Valentine was doing this, he was imprisoned and martyred. Stories say he met the jailor’s daughter and fell in love with her. Then before his execution on February 14, 1269, he gave her a letter signed, “Your Valentine.”Â
Even after all years, this salutation lives on today.Â
We celebrate Valentine’s Day by giving our loved ones notes, flowers, and other gifts to remind them we care. Even exchanging dark chocolate is a traditional and contemporary gift good for health!
But our gifts can also go beyond material items.Â
Respect is also a gift to be fostered and shared. Having respect for others and for ourselves can lead us on the path of inner satisfaction and unconditional love.
When we respect ourselves, we can communicate and connect in kinder ways.Â
These qualities are gifts we can share with our companions and they contribute to the philosophy of “love thy neighbor.”
A hug is another gift that can be shared. By wrapping our arms around someone and holding them close, we can show them how much they mean to us.
This sincere gesture is good for our health as well. Science reveals that hugs lower stress hormones and blood pressure.Â
A hug held for 20 seconds releases oxytocin, a hormone referred to by scientists as the “cuddle hormone.” And a self-hug offers the same benefits while giving a nice stretch to the shoulders and upper back.
This Valentine’s Day, don’t forget to cherish yourself and others.Â
Thich Nhat Hanh expressed this beautifully when he said, “The teachings on love given by the Buddha are clear, scientific, and applicable… Love, compassion, joy, and equanimity are the very nature of an enlightened person. They are the four aspects of true love within ourselves and within everyone and everything.”
We can begin to lead with respect and love everywhere we go. It is vital to our overall well-being to live in a society that uplifts one another.Â
Want to incorporate more love into your everyday life?Â
Practice caring for yourself and loved ones: Cultivate self-awareness and appreciation by supporting others. This may be done through massage, therapeutic touch, pressure point therapy, mudras, positive affirmations, poems, music, and meditation.
Get comfortable with empathy: Relate to others by holding onto compassion during differences of opinion.
Listen to yourself to receive heartfelt affirmations: Affirmations are a positive forward-directed truth that we can connect with deeply. Create a paper heart of any style and write the affirmation on it. From here, we can write it repeatedly or create a tally to keep track every time we re-embrace these affirmations.
Valentine’s Day is all about celebrating love, friendship, and admiration.Â
But love can come in many forms. It is not just about romance, but about showing care to those around you.Â
Love can be shared between family, friends, peers, and within ourselves.Â
With that being said, we encourage you to make room for self-compassion this month (and every month).
Here’s how…
Self Care
Having a spa day and pampering ourselves can be a great way to relax. You can eliminate distractions and refocus your attention on how you feel by treating yourself.Â
You can light some scented candles, draw a bath, or read a book you love.Â
Reach Out to Loved Ones
Connecting with the people who love us can be a way to give love back to ourselves.
Reminding ourselves of the people who are there for us can reinforce our self-love.
You can take a moment to call an old friend or video chat with a family member who makes you smile.Â
Do What You Love
Doing more of the things you love can give you a healthy outfit to explore your interests. You can either participate in activities you know you love or take the opportunity to try something new.Â
“To fall in love with yourself is the first secret to happiness.” – Robert Morley.
Do you ever catch yourself feeling blue when the sun sets earlier and the days and nights start to blend?
Even though we can spend time outdoors after work or school in the winter –Â we are far less likely if it’s dark and cold outside.Â
Spending day after day indoors for long periods of time can lead to what is commonly known as the winter blues.
But it can be managed, and we can flip the script.Â
Here’s how!
Take Action
Even when it’s cold outside, we can still incorporate the things we love into our routine.Â
Setting aside some time to go on a brisk walk (even if it’s only 10 minutes) can significantly impact your mood.Â
If going outside that day isn’t an option, there are several fun indoor activities you can try out as well, such as listening to a motivational podcast or journaling.Â
Celebrate Accomplishments
Celebrating all accomplishments (even the smaller ones) can help encourage us to keep going and help break up the day.
When you finish a task – don’t immediately move on to the next one.
Instead, you can set aside some time to feel proud of what you’ve done.Â
Doing so can give you more incentive to continue moving forward!
Do Something Special For YourselfÂ
Every day is a good day to practice self-care and be kind to ourselves.Â
Small acts of kindness can go a long way. Especially the kindness we show ourselves.Â
Prioritizing what makes us happy can help us cherish every moment.
Have you ever started a certain project excited and ready to take it on…
But as time went on, you started noticing your motivation dip?Â
It happens more often than you may think – especially with larger tasks.
Breaking tasks up into three sections: the begging, middle, and end can help make the overall process much easier.
The Beginning
Motivation comes from within, and it is often easier to get motivated while doing tasks we love.Â
Having to do something and wanting to do something are very different things.Â
Going into a project with a positive mindset from the very beginning can’t necessarily guarantee a smooth journey. But it will make it much more likely.
Starting a project with a positive attitude and a clear end in mind can help give you the drive to keep going even when it’s hard.Â
The Middle
Having a clear goal is the first step.Â
The second step is putting it into action.Â
Remember, you don’t have to finish everything on your list in one sitting.Â
In fact, it’s often ideal not to.
Our brain can only go for so long without a break.Â
Progress takes time. If you catch yourself starting to lose motivation at the halfway mark – take a break.
You may need an hour, or you may need a day. Listen to what your body is trying to tell you and respect its limits and the process.Â
The End
Not all of us get stuck in the middle of a task.
Some of us thrive during the start and middle but slowly start crashing towards the end.
Even though you’re so close to being done, all you want to do is walk away.Â
Staying motivated to finish a project is much easier said than done.Â
It isn’t all about willpower.
It’s about understanding your patterns and what makes you tick.
If you are the kind of person who needs regular breaks, take them!
If you are the kind of person who thrives working with music in the background, listen to music.
There isn’t a set-in-stone rule book for staying motivated. If there was, we’d all be following it.Â
When in doubt, follow your instincts and trust the process.
If any of those thoughts sound familiar, you are not alone. Starting something new can be scary. And when something scares us, we can often procrastinate.Â
The limiting beliefs we listed above are feelings. And feelings are not facts.Â
Just because something feels true doesn’t mean it is. Remember – limiting beliefs are easy to form. But they are also easy to break.Â
Success Breeds Success
Small wins are far from small.
Appreciating and acknowledging previous small wins can give you a newfound confidence boost when you need it the most.
Thinking about previous success stories can help remind you that you are strong and have what it takes to succeed in whatever you want to do.Â
The next time you catch yourself feeling afraid to start a new task – don’t dive in headfirst. Instead, do something unrelated that you know you excel in.
Doing so can help get your creative juices flowing and your confidence soaring.
Having No Limits is Limiting
Being faced with too many options can be stressful.Â
Having unlimited options in front of us can often lead to feelings of indecisiveness. Â
Instead of spending time and energy sorting through dozens of options, pick the one that feels best at that moment.
You can always change your mind later on if need be.
Act The Way You Want to Feel
It’s so easy to tell yourself, “I will go to the gym or apply for that job once I feel motivated.”
When we wait for motivation, we risk it never finding us. Â
When we go out and find motivation, we secure it.
We can’t always force ourselves to feel a certain way out of the blue.Â
However, we can go out of our way to engage in activities that we know bring us joy, confidence and motivation.
If listening to a certain song makes you feel upbeat and motivated, listen to it more often!
“Action will destroy your procrastination.” Â – Og Mandino
This statute became the basis for the establishment clause and led to the freedom of religion in America. It meant that people of different faiths could freely express their own religious beliefs. Giving everyone the right to believe in a religion, change their religion, or choose not to follow any religion.Â
Today, we can remember and celebrate this day by recognizing the diversity in our communities and in the world. We all have a right to practice our religions but must also remember to mutually respect each other’s beliefs, even if they are different from ours. There is no one right way to experience and express religion, so this day is a reminder to respect all of the different ways that people express their beliefs, as long as they are not harming another person or group.
Religion is often an important part of people’s culture and a way that they can experience a connection to their community, family and ancestors. ​​Religion can be a key factor in the cultural identity of many people, influencing their behavior and traditions. Prayer, rituals and art are some of the ways people show their involvement in a particular religion.Â
We can learn about the rich history of religions that have helped to shape humanity by reading relevant books or watching videos about these topics.Â
Understanding and empathy are two key concepts to focus on National Religious Freedom Day.Â
 
